COCKY RIDHUAN MARRIED BUT AVAILABLE TO TERESA KOK, SIGNS YOU ARE READY FOR MARRIAGE

Ridhuan Cock to Teresa Kok, Signs you are ready for marriage.   Marriage is a huge decision and it’s best to think things through before you take the major step. It’s one relationship that changes your life forever. Here are ways you can find out whether you are ready to make this big decision in your life,Dr Ridhuan Tee Abdullah, an associate professor, to address the Member of Parliament for Seputeh, Teresa Kok, as “kiasu spinster’. This is totally uncalled for and proves that Ridhuan Tee is unfit to lecture at National Defence University Malaysia (UPNM).

It is shocking that as an associate professor, Ridhuan Tee has failed to understand that every individual has the right to decide if he/she wants to marry, and if so when to marry. This is a very personal matter and not a subject that should be mocked or ridiculed.

Ridhuan Tee’s sexist remark shows that he is a male chauvinist who cannot debate based on facts. It is totally unnecessary for him to come out with such gender discriminatory remark in his reply to Teresa’s criticism.

Ridhuan Tee should retract his remark and apologize to Teresa Kok immediately. At the same time, he should be removed as an associate professor in UPNM.

It is worrying that if we allow him to continue teaching in UPNM, a male-dominated university, will our future military officers be gender sensitive and know how to respect female?

You’ve found your Mr Right Cocky Ridhuan Married but available to Teresa Kok, Signs you are ready for marriage

Pre marital sex is a reality. As much as some may be against it, it is not behave in a against the law to indulge in it. Sometimes couples forget to use condoms, or the condoms may burst. A girl may get pregnant. She may opt for an abortion. As much as some may be against it, it isn’t the law to do so. What’s horrible is bearing a child when you’re not ready to be a parent. Sometimes relationships do not work out. It isn’t a crime to date someone and not take it to the altar. If you don’t feel the person is the right person for you, you have every right to walk away from it and look for someone you feel is a fitting life companion. It’s not against the law to want a better life partner. Sometimes relationships bring out the worst in you. You manner that is perhaps alien to even you. To recognise this and move away from destructive or violent dynamics is not a crime. Why is it, that when two consenting adults decide to enter a relationship, its okay, but when one of them feels it’s time to move on it’s not okay? If you’ve invested a few years into trying to make a relationship work and despite all efforts it doesn’t work for one partner, why is it that you expect that person to stay on in a compromise for the next 50 years of their life? Why is it that a man is the “user” and woman the “used”? Did she not enjoy the sex, the romance or the relationship as much as him? So what if in loving moments there were commitments of marriage made? Isn’t that normal when you’re in love and everything is hunky dory to want that? Isn’t it equally normal to opt out of a bad or boring relationship? Those that expect sex= marriage should simply get married first. Everything else is just a blame game and blackmail by a once consenting

The first step of knowing that you are ready for marriage is knowing that you’ve found your life partner. Often we come across people who we instantly click with and know that this is the person you would want to spend the rest of your life with.

You love spending time with him

If you love to spend quality time with him, then surely the two of you should get married. Not only will marriage make your commitment stronger but you will have him for the rest of your life with you.

Bringing out the best

If he/she brings out the best in you as a person, then you should tie the knot soon. It is very important for your partner to bring out the best in you as a person.

Do you see him as your partner in the future?

Your list of signs is incomplete without the fact whether you see your partner in your life in the future. Couples who are ready to get married think in terms of ‘we’ and not ‘I’. If you are following the same line, then it’s time for you to get married.Your long-term relationship or marriage is over and you’re finally free from a life of neglect, dominance, adultery, abuse, boredom, aggression, or whatever it is that you escaped from. You breathe a sigh of relief that you don’t have to spend the rest of your life with someone who was not the ideal life companion for you. But rather than experiencing glee at the thought of “life space” being vacant, for someone whose yin matches your yang, are you filled with dread at the thought of history repeating itself? I believe in a life of no regrets. If you marry, do so for the right reasons, and with all your heart, and if you decide to end it and move on, do so for the right reasons, and do it with panache.The same is to be said for restarting life. We all have our inner demons, stubborn patterns that don’t serve us, and we are condemned to repeat mistakes if we don’t learn from them. So the key is in learning the lesson from every experience, identifying what you don’t want in your partner, because that is far more important than what you do want in your life partner, and also to accept that you are flawed, human, and need to work on your shortcomings. No two marriages are the same, so keep an open mind, a happy heart, choose wisely and be open to new beginnings. Everybody deserves one.

A recent survey states the average age for losingvirginity is 17. Is that so or are teenagers getting sexually active even earlier? Debarati S Sen explores …

Studies have revealed that children, these days, are losing their virginity at a very young age. Experts say that with the average age of puberty going down to 9-10 years for girls and 10-11 years for boys, the average age for losing virginity too is going down. And the deadly paring with this is — awareness about sex is more these days and information (not always from the right sources) is freely available. Television, movies and most prominently the Internet is loaded with extremely easily accessible information and graphic details. This, most of the time, helps to entice the youngsters to experiment, who already have hormones raging through them.

Anju Uppal, principal of an international high school says, “I have been dealing with children for a long time and I do believe that children these days are losing their virginity very early. They get attracted to each other and are tempted to take it all further.”

Curiosity killed the cat
Psychiatrist Dr Anjali Chhabria says, “It’s human nature to be curious. A teenager would definitely want to experiment and experience the information he/she has heard about sex. For certain kids who are more shy, withdrawn and introverts, social networking sites are best for communication. Kids who may be new to exploring sexuality or may have a high drive, do indulge in cyber sex or phone sex at times.” Anju Uppal adds, “They are much more aware of things these days and they are very keen to experiment.”

Lack of attention from parents
With most parents working, kids are without proper supervision (a maid would not even understand the nuances of phone or cyber sex) and free to do as they like. “Sometimes the attention from the parents is not enough, kids may indulge in these things just to attract negative attention from parents,” says Dr Chhabria.

Family history
Children who are from broken families are prone to indulge in flings with multiple partners without emotional attachments. Seema Hingorrany, clinical psychologist adds, “When there is a marital discord between parents the children may try to cling to their relationships and are ready to lose their virginity to hold on to it.”

Sex isn’t taboo anymore
Sex in our society is also not such a taboo as it used to be earlier and virginity is not such a big deal. Psychotherapist Shilpa Raheja agrees, “Virginity has lost its sacred value. ‘Saving your virginity for marriage’ is something that is even laughed at these days by some people.” This attitude, though not very common is accepted.

Influence of alcohol
Is influence of alcohol or substance abuse one of the reasons that lead to lowering the age of sexual activity among children? Dr Chhabria says, “It may not be one of the reasons but it may stimulate the sexual urge further for them to indulge in sex. Also substance and alcohol tend to reduce the anxiety towards sex and alter consciousness which definitely plays a major role in letting the person freely perform sex.”

Peer-group pressure
To have a boyfriend or girlfriend is like a status symbol say experts. “So much of ‘hanging around’ at pubs, cafes and discos are happening. You need a girl in your arms when you walk in to a party,” says Shilpa. There are children who have their reasons for absistence but sometimes they are counteracted upon in a very strong way by the friends and the peer group. “Friends often provide the means when a parent refuses,” says Anju.

Proper education needed
Yes we all know sex education is provided in schools. Period. But with rampant teenage pregnancies it obviously is not enough. Shilpa says, “Talking openly about sex is still not common. Parents usually want some other organisation to do the sex-talk with their kids.”

Effects on children
Seema says, “In the last five years I have seen the number rise rapidly. Around 50-75 per cent young girls and guys lose their virginity much before they are anywhere near adulthood. And this affects them mentally. When kids are in Std 5, they have crushes and before they are in college most lose their virginity. When such a relationship does not work out depression hits them. There are anxiety disorders, eating disorders and feelings of guilt that may ruin their childhood.”

Expert advice for parents
A good relationship between parents may be important where both have similar parenting styles. Parents need to be role models and need to make their child see how important is love, affection, care and commitment in a relationship. They need to explain that sex is something precious to be shared with the person you love and not just an act of physical satisfaction.The emotional problems that come up with losing virginity at an early age and that come along with multiple partners needs to be explained to your child with a lot of patience. Children also need to understand that their parents are the one who they need to confide into. Also all information from friends and elsewhere needs to be confirmed as it may not always be true. Children also need to judge better for themselves what is right and wrong and what will be good for them in the future.

Advice for teenagers
-The only way you can guarantee that you won’t catch a sexually transmitted disease and won’t get pregnant is abstinence.
- No one can force you into it. ‘If you loved me you’d do it’, can be countered with a ‘If you really loved me you would wait’.
- Saying a no to a person even if it is someone you have said a yes to earlier, is perfectly okay.
- Always keep in mind that despite what rumors and gossip may suggest, virgins are a majority in most high schools, not a minority.
- If you want to show someone how much you care intercourse is not the only way to go about it. Don’t let others try to convince you otherwise.
- If you kiss someone passionately does not mean that you have to go on to having sex with them.

The see-through bra was a definite plus. Her nipples look yummy as hell, wouldn’t you just love to suck on

Here is another Asian girlfriend posing for a few naughty pics for her boyfriend. And just look at her and her happy cock sucker smile, so cute. I don’t know where she is from or what she is but I do know she love to give head and that is the only important thing here. Anyway, send more interesting pictures and videos (of individuals 18 year-old or older)

A VERY USEFUL MANUAL FOR LUSTY NEW LOVERS WAYS TO KEEP YOUR SEX LIFE IN TOP FORM

People from the UK are enjoying a thriving sex-life well into their sixties, a survey has shown.According to a report published by Age UK, a quarter of over-65s claimed that their love life hasn’t changed despite their age, and 8 per cent of the same age group are keen to embark on a new sexual relationship, the Independent reported.A total of 2,000 over 65-year-olds were surveyed, out of which 12 per cent said that they would like to try out new things with their partners.

Meanwhile, 18 per cent of women and 27 per cent of men said that they would like to be more sexually active.

More than 25 per cent said that they couldn’t talk to their partners about sex and only 17 per cent felt comfortable talking to health workers.

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MORE than 50 years have passed, but retiree K.S. Lim still remembers the first time he saw Malaysia’s Queen of Striptease, Rose Chan, perform.

It was in the mid-1950s when Lim caught the first show by Chan, who was in her 20s, in Batu Gajah, Perak.

“I was 18 years old when I saw her perform at a cinema in Batu Gajah,” he said.

Lim, 71, said he had joined his elder brother and several friends on that outing.

“Curiosity got the better of me and I decided to join them to check out for myself what was the big deal about Chan as I had heard so much about her.”

His interest was piqued as Chan, a cabaret dancer turned striptease queen, was purportedly able to perform “outrageous” stunts.

“I decided to check out for myself whether what I heard was true,” he said.

Chan and her troupe, said Lim, would normally perform in small towns like Batu Gajah, Pusing, Tanjung Tualang and Tronoh.

“This was because enforcement in these areas was not so strict,” he claimed, adding that Chan would perform in an area for only five days.

“After the five days, she would move on to other places,” he said.

At that time, the ticket to Chan’s show cost five dollars.

“Mind you, five dollars was considered a huge amount then,” said the grandfather of two.

The steep price did not deter her legions of adoring “fans” from coming back day after day. Some went for as many as three shows a day.

“The earliest show was usually at 7pm and each show could last for two hours,” he said, noting that each time Chan performed, the venue would be packed to the brim.

Those under 18 were barred from viewing Chan’s performances due to the nature of her shows.

A typical show by Chan, Lim added, would start with her singing and dancing.

“As the night dragged on, she would slowly strip and perform lewd, outrageous and dangerous acts,” he revealed.

She was also known to wrestle with pythons on stage.

Lim said Chan truly lived up to her Striptease Queen tagline. As such, members of the audience would usually wait with bated breath for the finale of her performance.

Lim recalled how Chan once invited her audience up on stage. “She dangled cash of RM1,000 to anyone who was willing to join her.

“There were, however, no takers as the men were afraid of being injured,” he quipped.

Looking back, Lim said Chan was ahead of her time.

“She awed spectators with her outrageous performances,” he said.

Despite her name, life was anything but a bed of roses for Rose Chan.

According to Wikipedia, Chan was born Chan Wai Chang in Soochow, China in 1925 to acrobat parents and was brought to Kuala Lumpur in 1931, at the age of 6, by her adoptive mother.

She had no formal education, save for eight months of schooling at the age of 12. She then worked in a button-making shop, earning six gantang of rice and one loaf of cornbread a month plus 12 cents per thousand buttons and later made mosquito nets from which she earned a lit bit more.

When she was 16, her adoptive mother arranged her marriage to an elderly Chinese Singaporean harbour contractor as his fourth wife.

Her marriage, however, broke up after a few months, when her husband got fed up with her adoptive mother’s constant request for S$1,000-$2,000 each time.

He sent Chan back to Kuala Lumpur and gave her S$600 a month, on condition that her adoptive mother got her a servant to do the housework. The mother, however, pocketed the money. One day, when her husband dropped by the house on his way to the Penang races, he saw Chan doing housework. Angered, he not only stopped sending money, but stopped seeing her entirely.

With her allowances cut, and her finances in dire straits, Chan sold her last gold bracelet for over RM300, and took a train to Singapore the following year to meet her husband. Unfortunately, he refused to accept her. She stayed behind to become a cabaret dancer at the Happy World, her husband’s favourite haunt, in order to spite him.

She proved to be an accomplished dancer and as a result of her success, she was in great demand, and started dancing at as many as five cabarets at a time.

In 1951, Chan opened her own show, touring the whole of Malaya. The turning point of her career came unexpectedly the following year, and transformed her from a cabaret girl to the “Queen of Striptease” at the age of 27.

While performing at the Majestic Theatre in Ipoh, her brassiere snapped. Encouraged by the enthusiastic applause from the crowd, Chan decided to make stripping a permanent feature in her performances.

She shot to fame overnight and the “Striptease Queen” was born. But Chan was just as quick to earn the “Charity Queen” moniker. Even before her unexpected fame, she had started to do charitable work by dancing in aid of the Nanyang University Fund. Chan brought her striptease act to Kuala Lumpur, Penang, and Alor Star, always donating part of her proceeds to charity, benefiting children and old folks’ homes, institutions for the blind, and tuberculosis patients.

Her daring stunts made her famous, and she took her act around the world, including to Germany, France, Britain, Australia, and Indonesia.

There was also a song composed in her honour, titled Rose, Rose, I love You.

In her later years, Chan was diagnosed with breast cancer. She died at age 62 at her home in Butterworth on May 26, 1987 and was interred at the Beow Hong Lim Columbarium in Air Itam, Penang.